About StillWithMe
Where grief meets comfort, so you can rest in love.
StillWithMe was created out of love, loss, and the belief that no one should grieve alone. Grief leaves both an emotional and physical emptiness, and we wanted to create something tangible that provides comfort in those moments.
Our flagship product, the StillWithMe memorial pillow, is hand-sewn, hypoallergenic, and water/tear-resistant. Each pillow is designed with a heart-shaped patch for personalization — a place for a name, birth and passing dates, or a keepsake memory. More than a pillow, it is a way to “rest in love.”
Alongside the pillow, we are building the StillWithMe app, a 24/7 hub for grief support. Inside the app, users can find guided meditations, journaling prompts, coping tools, community circles, and in the future, pillow-sync features that bring voices, heartbeats, and warmth to life.
Together, the pillow and app create a holistic experience of comfort and connection.
At StillWithMe, our mission is simple: to bring comfort where grief meets love. Our vision is a world where grief is met with compassion, dignity, and community
We are equally committed to giving back. That’s why 10% of every pillow sale is donated to nonprofit partners that provide job training and employment opportunities for justice-impacted and underserved communities. In this way, each pillow not only comforts a grieving family but also helps someone else rebuild their life.
StillWithMe, LLC is based in Raleigh, North Carolina, and led by founder Shontae Alexander, who brings a background in project management, nonprofit leadership, and social-impact entrepreneurship.
We invite you to join us in this journey — whether as a customer, partner, or supporter — as we work to ensure that no one grieves alone.