Everything you need to know about StillWithMe™ — the app, the pillow, the community, and how it all works together. Don't see your question? Reach out at contact@stillwith.me.
StillWithMe™ is a grief support ecosystem built around three pillars: Connection, Comfort, and Community. It combines a free mobile app for private journaling and remembrance, the StillWithMe™ Memorial Comfort Pillow, and in-person retreats and grief circles.
We were founded on the belief that no one should have to grieve alone — and that grief support should be accessible, private, and genuinely comforting rather than performative.
No. StillWithMe™ is a comfort and community platform — we are not licensed therapists, counselors, or medical providers. Our app, pillow, and community spaces are tools for emotional support, remembrance, and connection.
If you are experiencing a mental health crisis, please reach out to a licensed professional or call/text 988 (the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline). We have crisis resources available at Crisis Resources.
StillWithMe™ is for anyone navigating grief or loss — including:
Grief doesn't follow a script. You don't have to have lost someone recently or in a specific way to use StillWithMe™. If you are carrying loss, you belong here.
StillWithMe™ is faith-informed and welcomes everyone. Our founder's personal faith shapes the heart behind the brand, and you may notice occasional scripture or spiritual encouragement within the app. However, we welcome people of all faiths, spiritual backgrounds, and those with no religious affiliation.
You will never be required to engage with faith-based content, and our community spaces are designed to be inclusive and respectful of all beliefs.
Yes — completely free. The StillWithMe™ app will always be free to download and use. We believe grief support should never feel transactional. The only product we sell is the Memorial Comfort Pillow.
If we ever introduce optional premium features in the future, they will be clearly communicated and the core app will remain free.
Yes — your journal is completely private. Your free write entries, letters to your loved one, and daily check-ins are visible only to you. They are never shared with other users, partners, or StillWithMe™ staff.
When you write in your journal, you'll see a reminder that says "nothing here is shared with anyone." We mean it. Your private words stay private.
My Memorials are private memorial pages you create for your loved ones. Only you can see them. They are a personal space to hold photos, memories, and information about the people you've lost.
The Legacy Wall is a shared community space where members can choose to publicly honor a loved one. It's optional — you decide if and what to share there. Posts on the Legacy Wall are visible to the StillWithMe™ community.
Think of My Memorials as your private altar, and the Legacy Wall as a shared garden of remembrance.
Our community groups are gentle, moderated spaces organized by type of loss — such as loss of a parent, loss of a child, loss to suicide, loss due to incarceration, and others. The philosophy is simple: share your own experience, hold space for others, no advice, no drama.
Every post gives you the option to share with your name or anonymously. You never have to identify yourself if you don't want to.
Groups are actively moderated to ensure they remain safe and supportive. Content that is harmful, judgmental, or off-topic is removed.
Each StillWithMe™ pillow includes a QR code located on the inner palm of the right hand. When scanned with a mobile device, it links directly to a personal memorial page in the StillWithMe™ app associated with the pillow.
This creates a physical and digital connection — you hold the pillow, scan the code, and you're brought into a space that holds the memory of your loved one. Photos, written memories, voice recordings, and more can all live on that memorial page.
The Pillow Setup feature (coming soon in the app) will walk you through linking your pillow to a memorial page.
The daily check-in is a brief, private emotional inventory in the app. You rate how you're feeling on a simple scale and select from a set of feeling words (including ones often unnamed in grief, like "guilty," "numb," and "confused").
Your check-in history is saved privately so you can look back and notice patterns over time. It's not shared, analyzed, or used for any purpose other than helping you track your own emotional journey.
The StillWithMe™ Memorial Comfort Pillow is designed specifically for grief. It combines several unique elements:
It's not just a pillow. It's a remembrance object designed to hold both physical comfort and emotional meaning at the same time.
The current prototype dimensions are approximately:
These dimensions may vary slightly in the final manufactured product. The overall scale is designed to feel like the upper torso of an adult.
The pillow is filled with soft cushioning material and is designed to be hypoallergenic. The exterior is soft plush fabric suitable for hugging and resting. The arms may contain weighted beads or similar material to provide gentle pressure.
Full material specifications will be included with your order. If you have specific allergy concerns, please contact us at contact@stillwith.me before purchasing.
The StillWithMe™ Memorial Comfort Pillow is currently in the prototype and pre-launch phase. We are working toward our first production run and will notify everyone on our email list when pre-orders open and when pillows are ready to ship.
Join our mailing list on the home page and select "Pillow pre-order notifications" to be first to know.
Yes. The heart-shaped patch on the pillow's left chest area can be personalized with a name, dates, or other meaningful text. Personalization options and pricing will be available at the time of purchase.
Please note that personalized pillows cannot be returned once production has begun. See our Returns Policy for details.
Yes. Ten percent of every pillow sale is donated to nonprofit partners that provide job training and employment opportunities for justice-impacted and underserved communities. In this way, each pillow not only comforts a grieving family but also helps someone else rebuild their life.
We will share details of our nonprofit partners as we approach launch.
The StillWithMe™ Grief Retreat is our inaugural in-person gathering planned for Fall 2026. It will bring together members of the StillWithMe™ community for an immersive experience of reflection, restoration, and real human connection.
The retreat will include guided activities, group conversations, quiet reflection time, and community-building in a safe, moderated environment. Location and pricing are still being finalized — join our mailing list to be the first to know when registration opens.
Yes. Every post in StillWithMe™ community spaces gives you the option to share with your name or post anonymously. We never pressure you to identify yourself. We want you to feel safe either way.
We're real people and we'd love to hear from you. Reach out any time — we aim to respond within 2 business days.
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